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sigh....I GUESS IM A BIT OVER IT

There comes a time in everybody's life when things have to change...that word.Change obviously comes in many shapes and forms..yaawwwnn.I hate change coz  for the most part it hurts...I recently went for a shorter hair do,,from the bangs that were a sign I could let go of a few inches to a hairdo that landed just below my cheek bones...I liked it.for a while and the endless questions weren't all that easy..why?how?when?are you going through something?.......

Ok,I was going through something..yea yea,,this aint out of my personal diary.I don't even own one..So did cutting my hair help?hell no!!it was a constant reminder that damn nappy hair takes long to grow.A fact my former saloonist failed to dish(note former)...So im not gonna say exactly what I was goin through...but it got me thinking about how people try to get over pain,misery,hurt,emptiness,loneliness,rejection(you get the drift by now.All bad things)
HERE IS A LIST OF TOP FIVE REMEDIES FROM A COUPLE OF FRIENDS...
1.Crying..bet this is just kawa with mamasitas but dudes do it to in the cover of darkness with the pillow hurled across their faces just to make sure nobody hears a sound...
2.Violence-this may include hitting,punching,scratching or tearing apart any living or non living thing.Psychology recommends having a punching bag or doll to release some tension especially in cases where the anger is misdirected(I am after all a psychology minor)...i digress...
3.Sex-this is probably the most common among dudes,,yea yea...I'm not being a feminist or anything but its common to see a dude shift from one gurl to another in a manner that would put Hugh Hefner to shame..
4.Talking to a close friend or loved one-this one not so many opted for,,fear that it would ellicit judgement..Honestly,I don't talk too much myself to other people when Im 'going through something' but maybe I'll give it a try..
5.Prayer-surprisingly,this was a last resort( an expedient adopted only in desperation) for some while for others it was the first(this was a very small number).From experience and testimonies,it works..better than all the rest..INFACT IT SHOULD BE THE ONLY ONE ON THE LIST..
I know its surprising coming from me,..but lets just say I'm following a different set of rules in my life and so far its working out great....so as for my former self..i guess I'm kinda over it...

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  1. Anonymous24 August 2012 at 00:51

    Nice read. good to know i aint the only one Effed up by change...

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  2. Jaejay27 August 2012 at 08:00

    everyone is anonymous...kip smilin though..

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